***I changed the rules and wrote my own true story.
When did I lose control is a question people might ask after experiencing a life changing event. I know I did. Having three major events in two years brought my life into clear focus. I think before I had been undermined by contentment even though nothing was ever perfect, I was happy and settled. I am an organized person. I like things “settled”. Upending events in 2013-2015 showed me something different. Now almost ten years later I feel settled again. Whew!