Since I already dug into my past with a different comment, I’ll follow up with a time when I felt humiliated in public, at a relative’s wedding reception. I married into a family of tiny, well educated women, the total opposite of myself. This is confession day for me, so bear with me. Or delete, up to you.
I had “ballooned” I think was the term, up to 155 pounds, even though I exercised every day, belonged to a gym, etc. I was in shape, but not slim. I went on a crash type diet, losing 30 pounds. I did this after experiencing my mother’s death of a heart attack. I saw relatives at the wedding after a few weeks absence. The humiliation came when my in-law aunt came up and loudly proclaimed, “we have our old Cheryl back!” Huh?
I never left, I was always there, being the best wife and mother I could be, working in and outside the home, juggling life. Back? I must have turned three shades of red, and it was of course, part anger. Words can be used as weapons.
Some people just like being mean.
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I WISH I was only 155…but then if I were, I wouldn’t fit into my cool looking leggings anymore.
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That was an awful thing to say, some people do not have the brains that they were born with.
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The anger was completely justified!
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Lol, I would never EVER dare to cross you or Suze for that matter 🙀
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sweetie, cross away. you would be forgiven anything.
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Is that a good thing or a bad thing
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Yikes I was really behind on your blog. Been catching up and reading today.
What a cruel thing to say to you. As if your weight defines you. Makes me angry anyone would say that to someone else. I’m sorry that happened
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Than k s. I’m over it was years ago. I’m not like that now much stronger
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Over the years I have been better at not letting those things get to me. Sometimes they will get to me like a week later though! Then I will have to let them go. Age helps out on stupid people who make stupid comments I think
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I think you’re a strong person. Don’t let it get to you.
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Take it from someone who knows, 155 is no balloon. Some people can be so thoughtless.
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Yes
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